How to Deal With Your Boyfriend's Ex-Girlfriend Who Won't Leave Him Alone

By Kevin Johnston, eHow Contributor

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If his ex still has his ear, make some moves to stop her.

When you are dating someone, his ex has no place in the picture. If your boyfriend's old girlfriend keeps coming around, you have a right to speak up and, if you can, put a stop to it. Avoid any heated confrontations with her, but take charge and let it be known that you don't put up with an ex in the picture. You don't have to ever lose your cool.

Instructions

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     Make sure you and your boyfriend are on the same page. Tell him you want to understand his feelings about the situation, and you want him to know how you feel. Open up communication about the ex-girlfriend, and you can actually strengthen your relationship with your boyfriend. By communicating instead of confronting, you can find comfort in knowing how your boyfriend feels about you and showing him that you want to hear his feelings on the subject of his ex. At the same time, you will have the opportunity to let him know the situation is bothering you.
     
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     Examine yourself. You may have jealousy issues because of a history of being cheated on. That doesn't mean your feelings about the presence of the ex-girlfriend are not legitimate, but it may help you to cool down a bit and realize you bring some issues to the table. Taking a position with your boyfriend that you take responsibility for your own feelings can go a long way for helping him feel like you are not attacking him.
     
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     Ask him to change his cell phone number. Your boyfriend can let all his friends know his new number, and he can advise them not to give it to the ex. She can't call or text if she doesn't know his number. If he refuses, it might be an indication that the previous relationship isn't finished.
     
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     Ask your boyfriend to block her email address from his address book. Most email programs have a blocking feature. This will prevent her from getting hold of him online. If he can't block her, persuade him to get a new email address.
     
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     Ask him to eliminate her as a friend on social networking sites. Your boyfriend can block her as a friend or any other kind of contact on his social networking pages, and she won't be able to snoop on him and write to him there.
     

I know I have been very quiet in last month or two. Been very busy. I found this article and I will be trying this out. I have a love of my life that I would like to make last forever <3

Hope you guys enjoy the article as much as I did.

Love lessons – how to make it last

10 July, 2013 06:56:00 Lasheigh Lucas

When you fall in love, everything is ‘magical’. The first six months of any relationship is known as the honeymoon stage. If you can get past the honeymoon stage and still love him, even when he leaves dirty socks next to the bed and forgets to replace the toilet roll holder, things will be fine!
You don’t need to go on romantic dinner dates daily to keep the romance alive in any relationship. Always remember, it’s the small things that matter.
Here are some tips on keeping the love alive in your relationship:
Every day:
• Take time to say “I love you” and mean it
• Cuddle with each other
• Kiss him long and slow, tingles and butterflies in your tummy are guaranteed
• Talk to each other for half-an-hour about anything and everything
• Be affectionate towards each other - don’t underestimate the power of touch
• Laugh together, this can soothe a stressful day
• Make each other a cup of tea or coffee first thing every morning.
• Take turns making each other breakfast or even supper - create romance in your own home
Every week :
• Try a gesture that will make your partner’s heart flutter - anything small that will let them know you are thinking about them. You don’t have to break the budget, just be thoughtful
• Ask how the other is and listen to the answer
• Make love. The passionate ‘stare-into-my-eyes-and-tell-me-you-want-me’ kind
• Get sweaty with him during a tough workout
• Argue. Mildly. Get your feelings out into the open, raise your concerns and your annoyances. Then make up
• Spend an hour or five apart, doing something you love. Make sure you always have some ‘me time’
• Sit in silence together for a while in some place you both love. Don’t say a word, just enjoy the moment
Every month:
• Have a date night. Get ready in separate rooms or places, put in a big effort and enjoy the reaction you’ll give each other
• Watch the sunrise together, or even the sunset
• Dance and party a night away, even if it’s at home!
• Bring up a personal joke from way back
• Clean the house together, this can be quicker and so much fun
• Try a new activity together like bungee jumping or volunteering for charity work
Every year
• Celebrate anniversaries in a big way. When you think about all the relationships that don’t make it, you will realise that another year is a big achievement
• Be creative in your intimate life, try making love in different rooms in your home, the pool and even the garden. Just make sure you keep it all private!
• Write your partner a letter. Keep it a secret, pop it in the mail and watch his face light up when he reads it. Many years of love letters make a pretty romantic love story
• Go on holiday together
• You could even go on holiday without each other. Yes, this sounds crazy, but when you are apart you will miss each other and realise how much you cherish special times together
Once in a lifetime
• Make it through a major relationship obstacle
• Go on an overseas trip. Take time to save up for this and decide to go when you are both financially able to
• Invest in something like property or shares
• Get lost in another country or city, it will be terrifying at first, but you will soon discover the romance in getting lost
• Become parents - if kids are not for you, adopt or buy a pet
• Celebrate your time together. Get married or have a big anniversary party

Baked Cheese Cake

 
Ingredients
1/2 to 1 packet of Tennis Biscuits crushed
60-100ml butter melted
2 x 230g cream cheese
10ml custard powder
2 eggs
125ml sugar
125ml cream
30ml lemon juice
5ml vanilla essence
pinch of salt

Methods
Oven 180 degrees
Layer the crushed tennis biscuits in an oven bowl of 22-25cm
Through melted butter ovee the crushed biscuits ( Do not mix together)
Mix the cream cheese, custard powder, sugar, salt, cream, lemon juice, vanilla essence and eggs together. 
Scoop the mixture over the Tennis biscuits
Bake for 35min .